It’s about time people get married for 30 to 50 years with no divorce , it’s about time marriage is not just for the moment but for better for worse.
KEY QUESTIONS ON MARRIAGE
1. HOW LONG WAS IT SUPPOSE TO LAST
2. TO WHOM DO I GET MARRIED TO
3. HOW TO MAKE MY PARTNER LOVE ME TILL DEATH DO US PART
ANSWERS TO THESE QUESTIONS
1. Marriage was made to last till death brought about a separation , it can and it should last a lifetime it was not meant to be for an hour and then a divorce, it was not meant to be for a week then divorce follows , it was not either meant for 15 years to 20 years then the couples get tired of each other and decide to divorce but rather it should become interesting
– But one may ask how can I live that long without finding my partner boring and rusty, this is what should be done
👉 NEVER FEEL SUPERIOR TO YOUR WIFE SEE HER AS YOUR COMPANION AS A MAN
👉LOVE YOUR WIFE LIKE IT WAS THE FIRST TIME YOU SAW HER
👉COMMUNICATION OF EVERY THOUGHT SHOULD BE EXPRESSED IN MARRIAGE NOT REMAINING IN THOUGHTS AND HAVING TO SIGH ABOUT IT BUT SHOULD BE EXPRESSED IN WORDS WITH THE PARTNER
👉EXPRESS LOVE IN ANYWAY YOU CAN LIKE YOU ARE TRYING TO WIN THE HEART OF YOUR PARTNER BEFORE MARRIAGE
2. The choice of whom to get married to has to be your choice, should be your choice, has to come from your heart , the choice should give you peace and not leaving you to think after making the choice if you did make the right choice.
– This is the guide to choosing your partner for life
👉MARRY WHO YOU FIND ATTRACTIVE NOT WHOM PEOPLE SAY IS ATTRACTIVE
👉MARRY YOUR FRIEND
👉MARRY WHOM YOU CAN SAY ANYTHING NOT THE FELLOW YOU FEAR SHARING A FEW THOUGHTS WITH
👉MARRY WHOM YOU CAN INTRODUCE AS YOUR PARTNER
👉MARRY THE PARTNER YOU CAN DAY DREAM ABOUT
3. You can actually make your partner love you till death as marriage was not meant to enjoyed and not endured ,it was meant to be enjoyed and not endured.
Till death do us part vows are not just mere words it is a proclamation of how you actually want the marriage to be
Marriage is an institution that was meant to endure and prevail over circumstances, not crash in the face of hard times and trials.
– How then is this possible
👉SHARE BURDENS AND NEVER KEEP THEM
👉COMPLEMENT YOUR PARTNERS EVERY EFFORT TO MAKE YOU HAPPY
👉ENJOY THE COMPANY OF YOUR PARTNER AND NOT ENDURE IT
👉DO NOT GET MARRIED AT FIRST FOR SHORT TERM BUT MARRY FOR LONG TERM WHICH IS TO MARRY FOR LOVE AND NOT PROFIT
👉MARRY WHOM WOULD COMPLEMENT YOU AND NOT DIMINISH YOU
👉MAKE MEMORIES IN FORM OF PICTURES , VIDEOS , GOING OUT ON EVENTS AND LAUGH AS MUCH AS YOU CAN
👉NEVER THROW AWAY AN OPPORTUNITY TO HAVE FUN, DO WHATEVER IS FUN FOR YOU AS LONG AS IT IS HEALTHY AND BRINGS JOY
From me here I say go get married , enjoy marriage and let the products of your union bring joy to the world and not sorrow.